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OUR AMERICAN SOCIETY IS CHANGING FINALLY - DIFFERENT LIFESTYLES ARE MORE ACCEPTABLE - TRANS GENDER LEGAL RIGHTS ARE NOW THE LAW WITH ANY DISCRIMITARY ACTIONS. BUT WE ARE NOT THERE YET - UNFORTUNATELY. YOU NEED TO DECIDE HOW YOUR CD DISCOVERY COULD AND WILL EFFECT YOUR LIFE - FAMILY / FRIENDS / CAREER etc. YOU HAVE TO DECIDE ON YOUR OWN - DO YOU CONTINUE IN PRIVATE OR BE OPEN TO DISCOVERY AND ACCEPTANCE OR NOT.
This scenario is all too common for men who wear lingerie, even those who do their best to hide it. In fact, only men who try to hide their lingerie wearing are ever caught, because men who don't hide it are never really 'caught,' per se. For some men, the prospect of telling a girlfriend or wife that they like to wear lingerie is too much. There is the fear of rejection, the possibility of divorce, and even the aspect of social ridicule if their secret gets out.
Unfortunately, the truth has a way of coming out. More often than not, men who wear lingerie often get caught—perhaps because they secretly want to be caught. After all, the burden of hiding such an intimate part of yourself from the one you love can be a heavy one. Once you've been caught, however, what you do next can make all the difference in how things play out in your relationship.
There are two levels of being caught wearing women's lingerie: One is being caught by a girlfriend in a relatively new relationship, and the other is being caught by a wife or a long-term girlfriend. Things are much easier to handle if it's the former because there is not yet an expectation of full disclosure. The early stages of a relationship are all about discovery and gradual exposure, so discovering that a man likes to wear women's lingerie is less shocking for a woman in a short-term relationship than for a woman who truly believes that the man concerned is her soul mate, her life partner, and the one person on earth who she knows fully and completely.
The first tip I would give a man in either situation is not to react in a scared, ashamed, or worried fashion. Your partners is surprised, true, but her reaction will be tempered a great deal by yours. If you squeal and start stammering excuses and apologies, you are sending the message that you have been caught doing something wrong.
Like the great Douglas Adams wrote: DON'T PANIC. Instead of panicking and behaving as if you've been caught with a room full of dead bodies, smile warmly and invite her in. Explain what you're doing, if she asks, and answer any questions she might have. Women are very good at detecting lies—better than you might think—and she will know you're lying if you try to tell her that you just started wearing women's lingerie today, or that you're doing it as a dare.
Lying can hurt much more than it helps for a couple of reasons. One, she probably won't believe you, and your lies will only convince her that you are untrustworthy. Two, it destroys your chance of actually being able to include your hobby, or at least the awareness of it, in your relationship. If you claim that it is a one-off event and she catches you again or finds evidence in the form of a pair of large panties left forgotten on the closet floor or in the laundry basket, then all trust will be shattered. Believe it or not, the female attire isn't as offensive to your partner as the lies that have accompanied it.
Now realistically speaking, not every woman is going to react with joy or even acceptance if and when they find their partner dressed up in panties and/or a bra. Some may be repulsed, and some may be so shocked that they simply can't handle it. These reactions are beyond your control, and attempting to control them is folly.
Being caught brings with it an element of undeniable risk. Sometimes things may turn out well, and you can increase your chances of them turning out well by behaving in a calm, welcoming and honest fashion. On the other hand, sometimes things are going to go poorly no matter what happens. Some women simply cannot comprehend, fathom, or accept the idea of a man wearing lingerie. As a man who wears lingerie, is that really a woman you want to spend your life with?
The issue of being caught wearing lingerie runs much deeper than a moment of naughtiness. It involves issues of trust, honesty, and personal freedom. Will you settle for someone who fulfills you in many respects but who makes you feel bad about an important aspect of your sexuality? Or will you find someone who honors you as a person who has needs and desires that deserve to be indulged just as much as their own? Will you honor and respect your partner enough to share this aspect of yourself with her, or will you disrespect her and shut her out of an intimate part of your life?
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OUR AMERICAN SOCIETY HAS SEEN MANY POSITIVE CHANGES IN OUR TRANSGENDER ACCEPTANCE OVER RECENT YEARS.
BUT - IT SEEMS TO US THERE WILL ALWAYS BE A NEGATIVE REACTION TO THE MILLIONS OF MALES WHO JUST WISH TO DRESS IN FEMALE FASHIONS.
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Crossdressing is not a new concept. It has been around for centuries, and it’s still going strong today! Men cross-dress daily for many different reasons. Some people are born with gender dysphoria. Crossdressing is often the only way they can feel comfortable in their skin. Other men are attracted to aspects of femininity. Dressing up as another sex will help them explore this side of themselves without feeling judged by society.
Reasons for cross-dressing vary. Some people do it because they enjoy the social aspect, while others want to dress up and do nothing else. Some do it as a form of sexual gratification, while others enjoy crossdressing and keep doing it because they like how it makes them feel. It’s not uncommon for them to feel more confident and prettier. Many men are also attracted to femininity but cannot express their feelings freely. Dressing up as the other sex will help them explore this side of themselves without feeling judged by society or their loved ones.
There are some aspects of crossdressing that everyone can agree on. For instance, it is essential that the men wear cute outfits. No one likes seeing someone dressed in frumpy clothing or ill-fitting garments. It’s also necessary for them to pick an attractive wig, if possible! Crossdressing is just one way some men choose to express themselves. In this blog post, we will explore the reasons why men decide to cross-dress!
Contents1. Fashion2. Love for the other gender3. Sexual attraction4. For relaxation5. Expression of gender identity6. To hide emotions7. To communicate with other people.8. Fantasy or idealization of women/femininity9. For fun10. To fit in11. Crossdressing as a stepping stone to ‘transition’ to live as a woman
Fashion is a large part of crossdressing for men. It allows them to express themselves. This is an extension of their desire to try on different costumes and roles in daily life for some. For others, like drag queens or professional performers, it can be a means of earning their living. Most fashion crossdressers do not wish to pass as women.
They enjoy dressing in beautiful clothes. Unisex fashions have been a growing trend in the last decade. They allow men to wear clothes once considered “women’s only,” such as skirts. In Japan and South Korea, fashion cross-dressing is famous. Men’s fashions are far more restrictive than women’s in many countries.
So, men have much less opportunity to pick clothing that is not designed for their gender. Clothing designed for women is far more available than clothing designed for men. So, men’s fashions are generally much simpler and less varied than those of women. Thus, cross-dressing allows one to experiment with the other gender’s fashion possibilities.
The first reason that many men cross-dress is that they admire women. According to Anne Vitale, Ph.D., “They desire the look, feel and fragrance of these garments as well as the everything else associated with them.” Some men enjoy dressing in their wife’s or girlfriend’s clothing when she is not around. It adds excitement to their sex life.
Some men even enjoy cross-dressing when their wife is present to see him in women’s clothing. It reinforces the fact that he is doing this for her, making it more acceptable to him. It also makes her more willing to wear sexy lingerie around the house when they are together.
For others, crossdressing fulfills their need to feel beautiful. Men are taught that only women are beautiful from a very early age. They strive to be more attractive to attract women. These men enjoy being told they are pretty by their significant other while dressed in female clothing. For them, the pretty and feminine clothing makes them feel more attractive than regular men’s clothing.
For some men, cross-dressing is a form of sexual expression. They feel aroused when wearing female clothing. They get a thrill out of achieving an erection while crossdressing. Some men are not attracted to other men. They are stimulated by the idea of being female in appearance. This is called autogynephilia. Other men are straight or bi-curious but enjoy dressing in women’s clothing for sexual pleasure.
These men are said to have transvestic fetishism. They may masturbate while they are dressed or achieve orgasm by being admired by their partner. Some find the idea of wearing women’s clothing arousing but do not engage in cross-dressing for sexual pleasure.
Many men find cross-dressing to be a very relaxing activity. It may relieve stress, anxiety, and depression for them. For some men, it is like meditation; they can become completely absorbed in applying makeup or styling their hair. Others enjoy the feeling of letting go when they are in women’s clothing. They no longer have to worry about responsibility and can relax. Men who have demanding jobs or complicated relationships may find it a relief to retreat into their feminine alter-ego.
Being in a supportive and accepting environment is very important for cross-dressing. Any stress or anxiety the man may be feeling can be alleviated with encouragement from his partner or friends. It gives them an escape from life’s pressures that they cannot otherwise achieve. This reason differs from person to person, depending on the stressors of their lives. This relaxation is accomplished one of two ways, by wearing female clothes in public or when home alone dressing up in women’s clothing. Peace can be achieved both at home and in public, but there are different reasons why these methods are employed.
Gender Identity is a complex concept for people to come to terms with. In the past, many psychologists believed that all men wanted to be women because of a lack of information about transsexualism. It was assumed that if a boy played with dolls or dressed in his mother’s clothes, he would become homosexual. Yet, many of these boys grew up to be heterosexual men that still crossdress as adults.
It is now believed that people who crossdress are expressing their gender identity. They see wearing women’s clothing as an opportunity to express themselves in a way society doesn’t usually allow. They still maintain their male identity and gender role outside but get to express their feminine side.
Many men who cross-dress do so to hide the fact that they are unhappy and depressed. Society expects men to be masculine, strong individuals who always want to have sex with women and lead exciting lives full of adventure. Men who feel as though society pressures them into this lifestyle put on a fake smile in public, but the truth is they are not happy. They feel trapped in their male identity, unable to express how they feel because of the fear of society. These men enjoy dressing as women because it breaks them from this lifestyle and allows them to live out fantasies.
Communication is a part of all relationships, and cross-dressing can be a helpful tool in understanding people. Some men indeed crossdress because they’re aroused by femininity. Still, it’s also quite clear that the vast majority want to wear beautiful clothes without sexual motivation.
Fantasy or idealization is a big part of crossdressing for some people. It’s a way to explore a different facet of their personality or even the female side. A man might want to wear women’s clothes because he finds them beautiful and feminine.
Fun is the most simplistic reason why men crossdress. Some people enjoy dressing up in women’s clothing and have no other reason behind it! Men might also use their female alter ego for different purposes. Perhaps to explore what it would be like to feel more feminine or sexy. Some do so to become an idealized version of themselves without society’s judgment.
Fitting in is one of the most common reasons why men cross-dress. A man might find that he enjoys dressing up as the opposite sex but does not wish to hide it. Some men are content with their biological gender but still want to do female clothing. For these men, wearing women’s clothes in public is a way to challenge the traditional notion. Often, these men will dress up and wear clothes in their everyday lives. They may also do this in places where it might be more acceptable to express their femininity.
Transitioning to life as a woman has gained some attention. It is due to the publication of books like “Whipping Girl” and “She’s Not There.” These books argue that many men who cross-dress later go on to become women. Plenty of men do not crossdress before transition. Indeed, plenty are pretty adamant that they never crossdressed at all! It is important to note that most men do not fit this pattern, and it is only relevant to a small percentage of them.
Men who crossdress get many different satisfactions from dressing in women’s clothing. Their motivation also varies. Some crossdress because they feel their female side is beautiful and want to express it. Others do so because it brings them pleasure or relaxation. The reasons vary, but there are many similarities between the men who dress up as women. Crossdressing is a way for men to release their emotions and express themselves. They get satisfaction from the look, feel and smell of women’s clothes. Many enjoy feeling beautiful, while others are aroused by it.
Cross-dressing is, sometimes, more of an abstract concept. It has a general meaning, of course, of people wearing clothes of a different gender. But each cross-dresser is a unique person. Each of us has a different motivation and is attracted to a specific aspect of cross-dressing. We must question why it feels so good to understand ourselves better.
This will be a unique task for each one of us. But we can figure it out. I must add that there are, however, many aspects that commonly make people feel good about cross-dressing. I aim to point out some of these common aspects and help some of our sisters figure them out. If you’re curious, read it till the end!
Why Does It Feel So Good to Cross-Dress? hide 1. If it feels like you’re yourself2. You can experience something that was denied to you3. It satisfies your curious instincts4. Cross-dressing can be Therapeutic5. You can dive into your kinks6. Dealing with gender dysphoria
Sometimes, it’s part of who we are, and that’s okay. Being yourself means dressing up as you like, not limiting yourself to social standards and gender norms. And if it includes feminine clothes, you may find yourself to be fond of cross-dressing, which is not, by any means, a bad thing! Accepting our inner desires, and behaving according to our personality, is a positive experience. Think of that as being able to unleash your full potential by breaking the so-called gender barriers. If you don’t, you may feel like an impostor of some kind. But if you do, you’ll finally feel like you’re truly yourself! This feeling is quite rewarding and improves your self-esteem, making you feel good about it.
Society divides more than clothes based on gender. This division can be brutal sometimes. It includes expectations of feelings and demonstration of love. It expects boys to show little to no emotion, allowing only women to be soft. But sometimes, corresponding to those expectations does not represent who we are on the inside. This way, we feel like our authentic way of life is being denied, as they expect us to comply with gender roles and expectations. In such a context, cross-dressing can serve as a means of escaping and dealing with the trauma. In a sense, it is a coping mechanism to help us live what we always wanted to. But it’s much more than simple role-play. You’re not pretending to be someone else. You are just exploring who you couldn’t be. This way, the art of cross-dressing will allow you to break free from the prison of feelings society built around you.
Speaking of exploration, we’d all be lying if we said we are not curious. That’s an instinct in every human being, let alone a cross-dresser! But once again, I have to mention how society separates many things based on gender. I mean, if many aspects of femininity used to be hidden from us, why wouldn’t we be curious about them after growing up? This way, cross-dressing can serve as a means of satisfying our instincts and fulfilling our interested thoughts. This will to explore is natural, and the discoveries we make while cross-dressing are priceless. We can use that to develop our feminine side and do things we never imagined doing as men, expanding our personalities in the process. As such, it also serves as a self-introspection. But being able to see how ladies perceive the world might be enough for many cross-dressers. I’m sure they feel good about their discoveries and plan to keep doing it.
All we have discussed until now made me believe that cross-dressing can be somewhat therapeutic. It helps us to deal with trauma by allowing us to be ourselves and discover new points of view. It also allows us to get in touch with many perspectives that used to be far from our reach. And when we use all of that, in addition to professional help, we might be able to overcome many hard feelings and become better people. In other words, we can use cross-dressing as a means of self-improvement since it involves so many aspects of our psychology. Session after session, chances are that those changes start to be more visible to us. Not only that, but most, if not all, of our doubts regarding gender identity, will be answered in the process.
We can’t ignore the sexual side of cross-dressing. It exists and is the reason for many of our sisters to keep on dressing up. And I must say, there’s nothing wrong with it either. Each one of us has our kinks, and sometimes it involves cross-dressing. Elaborate role-play or BDSM kinks can blend with it, creating unique combinations that some of us enjoy. And exploring this side of your sexuality can be quite healthy for your mental state. Even rewarding considering your subconsciousness. So, if this is what makes you into cross-dressing, you shouldn’t stop. Go ahead, and do what you like, as long as it makes you feel good.
Last but not least, cross-dressing can help closeted trans people overcome gender dysphoria. It is that one feeling of being uncomfortable with your body or gender presentation. Sometimes, while closeted, we are forced to conform to gender norms based on biological sex. As such, we are obliged to dress up as expected of our gender assigned at birth. Unfortunately, not too many of us are safe to transition openly. But until then, cross-dressing might be your escape valve. This will help you see yourself as you really are and brings the most benefits of all the previously mentioned motivations. So, if you don’t think the other ones suit you, it may be time for you to rethink your gender identity.
There is no such thing as a single reason to cross-dress. Each one of us is a unique person. But cross-dressing is a vague, or better yet, versatile concept. And many aspects of it can make someone feel good. So there’s no exact answer to what makes cross-dressing feel so good. It depends on the cross-dresser, and each one will have a different answer. Yet, they are all valid answers and should be considered so by who is asking. To summarize things, we can say that cross-dressing feels great because we are doing something we like, something that makes us happy. It feels so good because we already like what we are doing.
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